I think religion is only a set of rules teleologically designed to hold a society of people together into performing lawful and supposedly ethical acts and thoughts. The promise of a heaven and the warning of a hell, are but, it’s tools.
Some people are here on this earth to love, while some others are here to be loved. The former never get to be the latter, while the latter can never be the former.
Life is such that when there is no problem, life itself is a problem; And when there is a problem, the problem itself is life. Therein, perhaps, lies it’s entire essence.
I have found that pervertness is in the eyes of the beholder, but not in the actions of the beheld, for, actions are universal but perceptions aren’t.